what is Alcoholism

What is Alcoholism?

Alcoholism, or alcohol use disorder, is a chronic disease characterized by an inability to control or stop drinking despite negative social, occupational, or health consequences. It affects not only the individual but also the family, workplace, and community around them. Alcoholism often develops gradually, making it hard to recognize in its early stages.
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Common Signs of Alcoholism

Craving

Frequent cravings or strong urges to drink

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Secrecy

Drinking alone or in secrecy

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Neglect

Neglecting responsibilities at home or work due to alcohol

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Mood Swing

Mood swings or irritability when not drinking

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Tolerance

Increasing tolerance — needing more alcohol to feel the effects

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Withdrawal

Withdrawal symptoms like shaking, sweating, or nausea when not drinking

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Emotional toll of Alcoholism

How does Alcoholism Affect Friends and Family Emotionally?

Living with or caring for someone with alcoholism can be incredibly isolating and emotionally taxing. You might feel guilt, shame, anger, or a sense of responsibility for their drinking. Many loved ones live in fear — of confrontation, relapse, or harm. The emotional rollercoaster can lead to burnout, codependency, and deep personal grief.
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How to React When Someone is Struggling with Alcoholism?

It’s important to set boundaries and avoid enabling behaviors, such as covering up consequences or making excuses. Approach with empathy, not blame — alcoholism is a disease, not a moral failing. Encourage treatment and support, but also take care of your own emotional needs. Connecting with others who’ve been in similar situations can help you feel less alone and more empowered.
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What is CoVocis Community?

The CoVocis Community is a place for people helping their Brother with Alcoholism. Learn from shared stories, offer your support, and find others walking a similar path.
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Kate
"My husband’s drinking changed everything — our home, our conversations, our connection. I felt like I was constantly walking on eggshells. CoVocis gave me space to breathe. It connected me with other partners who understood the fear, the confusion, and the love. Their stories helped me find clarity and the strength to support him without losing myself."
Julia
"Growing up with a parent who drinks heavily is like living in a storm. I never knew what version of my mom I’d come home to. On CoVocis, I met others who had been through the same chaos. I no longer carry the guilt or shame alone — I carry it with people who get it. That has made all the difference."
Laurene
"Watching my best friend slowly lose herself to alcohol was heartbreaking. I didn’t know how to help without making things worse. CoVocis showed me I wasn’t alone in that struggle. Hearing how others navigated these same waters gave me tools, compassion, and the confidence to keep showing up with love and boundaries."